They spend their lives caring for others, and found a way to care for each other.

Paras and Mike came to Esalen from San Jose. Both work in the emergency room, and, carry the steady weight of caring for others. The pace is constant and the stakes are high in the ER. Outside of work, life had brought additional strain. Paras is moving through grief after the loss of her brother, alongside the physical and emotional intensity of menopause, as well as deep concern for family back in Iran. It became too difficult to keep going at the same pace.

When she saw a weeklong massage workshop, she applied for a scholarship for them. They were accepted. Paras was coming to relax and breathe more deeply; Miike was focused on supporting her through the experience.What unfolded was something they had not fully expected. As the days went on, the work began to include both of them. Touch became a way back. They slowed down. They listened. They practiced. Something shifted between them. Not just relief, but deeper connection. They left Esalen with a shared language they could carry home. They had a way of caring for each other, not only for others.