Beginning March 9, 2026 we will begin maintenance work at the baths on Mondays. Learn More.
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Due to road closures along Highway 1 to our north and south, Esalen is closed through April 11.
Esalen Institute is open! However, Highway 1 to the south is closed — please review the current travel advisory.

Esalen opens May 3, 2024

Visitors are now able to access Esalen as well as other businesses and trails in northern Big Sur via twice-daily convoys on Highway 1 operated by Caltrans.

Convoys run only at 7:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. each day. These are the only opportunities to travel into and out of Big Sur, so visitors must plan accordingly.

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David Cooley

Dave Cooley’s path to developing the Restorative Relationship Conversation model began in the field of restorative justice, where he worked as a professional Restorative Circle facilitator and trainer. In this role, he supported individuals in resolving interpersonal conflict through dialogue and repair rather than adversarial systems. His work was informed by training in trauma-informed care for victims of crime, cultural and gender sensitivity, Nonviolent Communication, and cultural brokering.

After leaving the restorative justice field, Dave was inspired to re-imagine the restorative conflict model as a practical tool for intimate relationships. Drawing on additional training in mindfulness-based practices, narrative therapy, somatic work, and attachment theory, he developed a process that helps people engage conflict in healthier, more connected ways.

Today, Dave offers the Restorative Relationship Conversation process to private clients seeking to transform conflict into deeper understanding, connection, and intimacy.

David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator and the creator of the Restorative Relationship Conversations model, a process that transforms interpersonal conflict into deeper connection, intimacy, and repair.

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