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Intimacy, Desire and Eroticism: The Triumvirate of Sexual Pleasure Week of June 2-7, 2019

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Do you know the difference between intimacy, desire, and eroticism? Do you find yourself churning through lovers because your sexual desire drops off over time? This workshop for women is designed to assist you in revealing the answers to these questions, which reside in past sexual experiences and in sexual fantasies. When we deconstruct family-of-origin and cultural messages about what “good girls” do and don’t do sexually, we can honestly admit our most ardent sexual desires to ourselves. By taking ownership of our adult sexuality we can free ourselves to make better relationship choices, communicate what we want and need to an intimate lover, and be more capable of creating and keeping an exciting sexual relationship over time.

We will examine peak sexual experiences and sexual fantasies in order to pluck out our hedonic goals. Mindful body awareness, group interaction, writing exercises, psycho-education, and juicy conversations will allow your unique erotic map to emerge, thus increasing your erotic intelligence. Alexandra Katehakis takes a psycho/spiritual/sexual approach to sexuality and defines erotic intelligence as the “deliberate seeking of pleasure coupled with the skilled use of reason.”

Note: This workshop is for women only.


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