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Jim Benson

Jim Benson

Jim Benson
is a certified SkyDancing Tantra teacher who has supported students and teachers-in-training internationally since 2003. A sex and intimacy coach for men, his programs include the Awakened Masculine Training and MultiOrgasmic Lover.

The Sovereignty of Self: The Awakened Masculine meets the Divine Feminine

Feb 03 - 08, 2019 Begins in 1 month
with Jim Benson & Jessica Wolk Benson

Will we stay together? Will our problems ever resolve? Am I truly loved? These and other meaningful questions emerge in nearly every intimate relationship. In arriving at the answers, we often neglect to access the wisdom of our essential masculine and feminine natures.


Living the Awakened Masculine

Feb 08 - 10, 2019 Begins in 1 month
with Jim Benson

Now more than ever, our world needs the awakened masculine, which is presence steeped in embodiment and self-love; purpose informed by clear vision, integrity, and true confidence; and action generated by a fierce sense of justice and right use of power. And perhaps the most important to master: it’s a sexuality that’s passionate, free of shame and anxiety, and centered in connection with self and partner.



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