Warren Farrell, PhD,
is the author of Women Can’t Hear What Men Don’t Say, as well as Why Men Are the Way they Are. His books on gender communication have been published in more than 50 countries and in 17 languages. He has been training psychologists and helping professionals in these areas since 1970.
Our inability to handle personal criticism from loved ones is a common Achilles’ heel. The more deeply we are in love, the harder it is to handle. Soon, couples feel they are walking on eggshells, unable to express themselves honestly, and the love fades. Raising children and dealing with money during an economic recession magnifies the problems even as those problems become the reason couples stay together. The result? Couples often remain legally married but psychologically divorced—in a minimum-security-prison marriage.