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Ron Frederick

Ron Frederick

Ronald J. Frederick, PhD,
is a psychologist and author of the award-winning book Living Like You Mean It: Use the Wisdom and Power of Your Emotions to Get the Life You Really Want. He lectures and facilitates workshops nationally.

Loving Like You Mean It: A Workshop for Gay and Lesbian Couples Considering Marriage

May 16 - 18 Begins in 3 weeks
with Ron J. Frederick & Timothy J. Beyer

While some same-sex couples decided to “tie the knot” following recent Supreme Court rulings, many are asking themselves what it would mean to be married. Some find themselves struggling to make an authentic choice, to do what feels right amidst social pressure to do otherwise. This highly experiential workshop is designed to help you and your partner authentically navigate this new and changing landscape of possibilities.



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